Hi Siobhan, you poor thing. My husband does this a little but only in the morning. I’m afraid I don’t have much advice for you only huge sympathy. Your a lovely person and this isn’t your fault. I’ve talked to my husband about the ‘noises’ issue and I’m lucky, he’s listened and at least tries to understand and minimise the noise, it’s still hard though. I’ve been reduced to sitting in the car to cry before now.