I’m right there with you! My husband is my biggest trigger. Nearly everything he does triggers me. At times all I can think is how long am I going to be able to do this. If I could just live elsewhere without hurting the kids I would do it today. My 10 yr old daughter also has it and my husband triggers her awful as well. I don’t know how people are expected to get along like this. I wish I had advice but I don’t. Just keep talking about it. Show him the videos on Misophonia and maybe he will back off a little.